Can you make him fall back in love with you?

Relationships usually run in cycles. At times everything is going great and it’s smooth sailing. And then you drift apart and it seems like you’re sinking in rough water… and seeing shark fins!

Maybe you break up, or maybe you just drift along aimlessly like a boat with no rudder. That feeling of love you used to have when you were on solid ground seems like it left a long time ago.

But what if you could get that back?

What steps could you take to make him fall back in love with you?

Put Yourself First

Sometimes when things get rough you forget to treat yourself like the beautiful person you are.  You need to pamper yourself, feed your soul.

And you definitely need to really take care of yourself physically.

This means paying extra attention to the way you eat.  Make sure you’re getting enough exercise.  Don’t forget to take care of your skin, get your hair cut, etc.

It’s important that you feel good about the person you see in the mirror.

You need to feel like someone who deserves to be doted over, to have doors opened and chairs pulled out.  Once you start treating yourself better, chances are he’s going to take note and start treating you better too.  Chivalry isn’t dead, it’s just easily forgotten. 

This is about you making you happy.  Do things that matter to you, things that will help you feel more confident and better about who you are.  Consider making a few changes in the following areas:

• Manicure/Pedicure
• New hairstyle
• Makeover
• Diet/Weight loss
• Updated wardrobe
• Teeth whitening/repair
• Fitness program
• Spa treatment

You don’t have to make drastic changes to have a drastic impact on your self-confidence and outlook in life.  You also don’t need to go to extremes to get noticed.

The main point here is not that you won’t be loved if you’re not perfect; it’s that it’s easier for him to take notice and fall back in love with you if you have confidence in yourself.  Confidence is sexy.

Stand up for yourself and all the good you have to offer. Don’t tear yourself down for what you think are flaws.

Fall in Love with Yourself

Striving for self-improvement is always a good thing.  It’s also important that you become a person that you love.  It will be so much easier to make him fall back in love with you if you love yourself first.

Don’t become someone who is narcissistic, self-obsessed or self-absorbed. But do become someone who accepts yourself as you are and finds peace in being who you are.

• Embrace your strengths.
• Work to change your weaknesses.
• Don’t punish yourself for being human and making mistakes.

Everybody makes mistakes.

Once you have learned to love yourself, you’ll be a happy, healthy person that others will find irresistable.  Including him.

You don’t have to cross oceans or move mountains to make him fall back in love.

The tides of love will ebb and flow, but it usually takes a long time to go away entirely. There’s a good chance that if he loved you before, you can make him fall back in love with you once you’ve learned to love yourself first.